The art of giving
Flowers are bar none the most frivolous and luxurious gift that can be given. Think of it. Highly perishable, even under the best circumstances. Harvested, presented and prized soley for their beauty, and expiring even as you ooh and ah over them, (and the thoughtful person who sent them to you). They bring such joy.
There are those who callously say, “I’d prefer not to get flowers”. Even their stony hearts are softened by the unexpected pleasure receiving the most simple bouquet.
Earlier this year, the Malora initiative started with the mission of spreading a little unexpected joy to as many people as possible. The challenge for the initial givers/participants was twofold: 1. Getting out of your their own heads and seeing - really seeing someone; and 2. Fostering connection through the vulnerable act of giving something unasked for, tangible and fragile – just because.
Malora is the combination of three names of three people who passed one bouquet of flowers one to another. The initial giver never knew her far reaching impact or even the name of the ultimate recipient. The imitative started with seven women, who selected floral bouquets that eventually impacted 21 people. The stories were touching! All recipients were deeply touched that someone took some time out of their busy day and thought of them. Wow! We can all use a little Malora.
A few weeks ago, I had to get to the bottom of why the gift of flowers, is so powerful? Especially since the only lasting effect of these precious buds is the impression of the person who gifted them.
My new friend Rinan, of Rinanculus Flower Workshops graciously allowed me to sit in on one of her flower arranging classes where, through her passion, I came to understand even more, the essence of Malora. Rinan has been on her own quest for a “calling” through passionate living in which she explored so many different hobbies and endeavors. As she told me her deeply personal story, I understood a little better the power of the flower. I understood more wholly the need for “quest” in our daily lives. (For another great story of discovery please read about Vicky’s inspiring culinary journey here).
In my observation, Rinan’s passion for flowers (which left me in deep thought for hours after the class) lays in their care, their arrangement, the honoring of the flower from her custody to the transfer of their happy, thoughtful presence in service to another. Thank you Rinan for embodying the spirit of Malora.
“To serve is beautiful, but only if it is done with joy and a whole heart and a free mind.”
― Pearl S. Buck
We’ll be starting the year with the Malora initiative in which all are welcome to participate. Join us on January 24, 2019 for Malora.